Peer mentoring is a structured arrangement in which older or more experienced pupils support younger or less confident classmates — offering guidance, encouragement and a listening ear rather than acting as a teacher. Most secondary schools run some form of peer mentoring scheme, and it can benefit both the young person receiving support and the one providing it.
How does a peer mentoring scheme typically work?
Peer mentoring programmes vary considerably between schools, but most follow a similar pattern:
- Recruitment — the school identifies or invites older pupils (often Year 10 or above) to apply as peer mentors
- Training — selected mentors receive training in listening skills, confidentiality, knowing when to refer to a member of staff, and the boundaries of their role
- Matching — mentors are paired with younger pupils who have been identified as potentially benefiting from support — typically Year 7 pupils adjusting to secondary school
- Regular meetings — pairs meet weekly or fortnightly in a supervised space, usually during lunch or a form period
- Review — a responsible adult (usually a pastoral lead or SENCO) oversees the scheme, checks in regularly with mentors, and monitors progress
Confidentiality is central but not absolute: peer mentors are trained to know that anything involving risk to themselves or others must be passed to an adult immediately.
What kinds of support do peer mentors provide?
Peer mentors are not tutors and do not teach academic content — that distinction is important. Their role is pastoral and social:
| Type of support | Examples |
|---|---|
| Transition support | Helping Year 7 pupils navigate the school building, timetable, and social rules |
| Social confidence | Talking through worries about friendships, fitting in, or lunchtimes |
| Study habits | Sharing how they organise their own homework and revision |
| Resilience | Offering perspective when a younger pupil feels overwhelmed |
| Signposting | Explaining what support services the school offers and encouraging use of them |
Peer mentors are explicitly not expected to deal with serious mental health concerns, family difficulties, or safeguarding issues — these are referred immediately to a member of staff.
Who benefits from being mentored?
Schools typically target peer mentoring at pupils who are:
- New to the school and finding transition difficult
- Experiencing social isolation or friendship difficulties
- Showing early signs of disengagement or low attendance
- Identified as vulnerable due to home circumstances or SEN
- Lacking a trusted adult to talk to at school
A peer mentor can reach a young person who feels reluctant to speak to teachers. Research consistently shows that young people are more likely to disclose worries to another young person first — the mentor then acts as a bridge towards adult support.
Who benefits from being a mentor?
The benefits of peer mentoring flow in both directions. Young people who act as mentors typically develop:
- Leadership and communication skills — explaining, listening, and motivating others
- Empathy and emotional intelligence — learning to understand perspectives different from their own
- Confidence and self-esteem — being trusted with responsibility tends to raise self-regard
- Resilience — managing the challenges of the role and learning from them
- UCAS material — peer mentoring experience is genuinely valued on personal statements and in university and apprenticeship applications
Many schools formally recognise peer mentors through certificates, commendations or leadership awards, and some run the scheme as part of the Duke of Edinburgh Award's volunteering component.
Is there a risk of peer mentors taking on too much?
This is the right question to ask. A well-run scheme has clear safeguards: regular check-ins with a responsible adult, a defined scope for the mentor's role, and an accessible "stop" point if the mentor feels out of their depth. Problems arise when schemes are poorly supervised and mentors feel they must resolve situations alone.
If your child is a peer mentor and comes home troubled by what they have heard, encourage them to speak to their supervising teacher — that is exactly what the referral route is for, and using it is not a failure on the mentor's part.
What should parents ask the school?
If your child is invited to become a peer mentor or is matched with one as a mentee, it is reasonable to ask:
- Who supervises the scheme and how often?
- What training have the mentors received?
- How is confidentiality managed?
- What happens if my child discloses something serious?
- Can my child opt out if they are not finding it helpful?
Schools should be transparent about all of these. If a school cannot answer these questions clearly, the scheme may need strengthening before your child participates.
Frequently asked questions
Can peer mentoring replace professional pastoral support?
No. Peer mentoring is a complement to pastoral care, not a substitute for it. Trained school counsellors, heads of year and SENCOs remain responsible for serious concerns. The peer mentor's role is to provide low-level, relational support and to encourage pupils to seek help from adults when needed. A school that uses peer mentoring as a way of reducing its investment in professional pastoral support is misusing the model.
What if my child doesn't want a peer mentor?
Peer mentoring should always be voluntary for the mentee. If your child has been matched with a mentor but does not want the arrangement, speak to the head of year. There should be no pressure to participate, and declining should not result in any disadvantage.
How do peer mentors handle sensitive disclosures?
Peer mentors are trained to listen without judgement and to avoid making promises of secrecy before a disclosure is made. If a mentee discloses anything involving risk — self-harm, abuse, or safeguarding concerns — the mentor is expected to tell them that this needs to go to an adult, accompany them to do so if possible, and report it immediately to the supervising teacher. The mentor does not investigate, advise on serious issues, or keep the information to themselves.
Is peer mentoring evidence-based?
The Education Endowment Foundation has reviewed the evidence on peer tutoring — where older pupils actively teach younger ones academic content — and found moderate positive effects on attainment. Evidence on broader pastoral peer mentoring is more mixed but generally positive for social outcomes, particularly for the transition from primary to secondary school. The quality of training and supervision is consistently the biggest factor in whether schemes are effective.
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